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Findom menu: build a tribute menu that sells

A findom menu is a short list of what a Sub can send you tributes for. It saves you answering “what can I get?” fifty times a day, and men send more when they can see exactly what’s on offer.

Findomination Editorial Team2 min read

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What a findom menu is

A findom menu (or tribute menu) lists the things you offer, each with a price in tributes. It sits in your bio, next to where you take tributes. A paypig reads it, picks something, and sends the tribute with his request.

It doesn’t have to be long. Five to eight items is plenty. Too many choices and he picks nothing.

What to put on it

Mix three kinds of item:

  • Small entry items that a new Sub can try without thinking: a short reply, a voice note, a good-morning message.
  • Your signature items, the ones you enjoy most and do best: outfit picks, a weekly check-in, a written task.
  • One premium item that’s clearly special and priced like it. Most won’t buy it; it makes everything else look reasonable.

Keep everything non-explicit and online. On Findomination that’s the rule anyway: no nudity, no sexual services, no meetups.

Findom menu ideas

  • Good-morning or good-night voice note
  • “Choose my outfit” from three options
  • A daily check-in for a week
  • A written task with a report-back
  • A short handwritten-style note or letter
  • Rate his outfit, desk or playlist
  • A place on your weekly top-Sub list
  • An hour of priority replies
  • A standing weekly tithe with a ritual attached
  • Contribute to something on your wishlist

How to price your menu

Start low enough that a new Sub can say yes, then raise prices as demand grows. If an item sells out every week, it’s too cheap. If nobody has ever bought it, try it lower or drop it.

Price by your effort and how personal it is. A voice note with his name in it is worth more than a generic one. A week of daily check-ins is worth more than a single reply.

Findomination doesn’t take payments or a cut: your menu and where you take tributes go in your bio. Requests on the site are free, and you can counter or decline any of them. Your menu sets expectations; your chats handle the rest.

How to present it

  • Put the menu in your bio, near the top.
  • One line per item: what he gets, then the price.
  • Add a single instruction: “Send the tribute with your request. No free previews.”
  • Refresh it monthly. A new item gives regulars a reason to come back.

Questions

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In the DMs

What men ask Dommes for

He writes what he wants. She says yes, asks for something else or says no. Everything happens in private chat.

  • Send me a voice note saying good morning 🎧

    Request

    Deal. Check your DMs at 8 💋

    Alice’s profile photo
  • A photo of your new heels 👠

    Request

    Accepted. Sending it now ✨

    Ava’s profile photo
  • Plan my week’s workouts 🏋️

    Request

    Accepted. Plan lands tonight 👑

    Bella’s profile photo
  • Pick my outfit for tonight 👔

    Request

    Only if I pick your shoes too 😏

    Camille’s profile photo
  • Check in with me every day this week 📅

    Request

    Accepted. Starting tomorrow morning.

    Chloé’s profile photo
  • Write me a short love letter 💌

    Request

    Accepted. You’ll get it tonight.

    Elena’s profile photo

Examples of the kinds of requests sent on Findomination.

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