Safety
The rules everyone agrees to, and the tools to enforce them.
Adults only
Findomination is for adults only. You confirm you’re 18 or older at sign-up, and anyone under 18 is stopped there. If you think someone on Findomination is under 18, report them: every report is read by a person on our team.
Anyone can claim to be anyone online. Never send money to someone you don’t know, and block and report anyone who pressures you.
100% free
Findomination is 100% free. There are no memberships, plans, coins or fees, and every feature works for everyone. Nobody on Findomination can charge you for anything, and we will never ask you for card details.
How requests work
- A Sub sends a request in a private chat saying what he’d like. She accepts, asks for something else or declines.
- When she sends a photo, video, voice note, text or task (photos and videos are checked automatically first), he sees a preview: a blurred photo, a few seconds of video or voice, or the first line of a text.
- He approves it to see it in full, or it approves itself after 2 days if he doesn’t answer.
- If it’s not what he asked for, she can send a new one. If he rejects that too, the request closes.
Content moderation
Every new profile photo, gallery photo, video and delivery is checked automatically the moment it’s uploaded. Anything that isn’t allowed is refused and deleted, and repeat attempts pause uploads. Our team acts on every report. Every photo has a Report button, and anyone can use the Complaints & Content Removal form, no account needed.
Profiles, messages and requests are checked automatically for words that suggest a minor or non-consent, and those are blocked before they’re sent. Every report is read by a person on our team, who can remove content, warn, suspend or close an account. Profiles without a photo are never shown, and only Dommes who accepted the current Domme Agreement are listed.
Request rules
Shown wherever a request is written or answered.
- Online only: no meetups, no in-person services.
- Nothing illegal, nothing involving other people without their consent.
- Either side can decline or counter any request. No pressure.
- Findomination is free. Share contact details or move to another platform whenever you like.
Contact details and other platforms
You can share contact details, links and other platforms in your profile and in chats, and move a conversation somewhere else whenever you both want. Do it at your own risk: once you leave Findomination, we can’t see what happens and can’t step in. Only share what you’re comfortable with, and never send money to someone you don’t know.
Blocking and reporting
Block from any profile or conversation. The other person isn’t told, can’t see your profile and can’t message you. Dommes can stop new messages whenever they want. Reports go to a person on our team, who can warn, suspend or remove an account.
Privacy
You can hide your online status, leave Explore, stop new messages and turn off read receipts in Settings. Use a name that isn’t your legal name. Findomination is online only: never meet in person. You can delete your account at any time.
Something urgent, or a decision you want to appeal? Email hello@findomination.com.
Privacy for Subs
Discretion is built in.
- Nothing to pay
- Findomination is 100% free, so there’s no card and nothing on your bank statement.
- No real name shown
- You choose a display name. Your legal name never appears on your profile or in chats.
- Dommes never see your email
- Your email is stored privately and seen only by you and our team.
- Block and report any time
- Block anyone from their profile or your chat. They aren’t told, and every report is read by a person on our team.
- Messages stay out of search engines
- Chats are only visible to the two of you, need an account, and are never shown to search engines.
Never allowed
Breaking these ends the account, and is escalated where needed.
- Minors
- Findomination is for adults (18+) only. Any suggestion of a minor ends the account and is escalated.
- Adult content
- No nudity, sexually explicit content or sexual services, in profiles, messages, requests or deliveries.
- Nonconsensual activity
- Every interaction requires ongoing, freely given consent that can be withdrawn at any time.
- Financial coercion
- No pressure or guilt-tripping beyond what both sides agreed to.
- Threats and blackmail
- Threatening exposure or harm, in play or otherwise, is an immediate ban.
- Impersonation
- You may not pose as another person or as Findomination staff.
- Fraud
- Scams, fake proofs and impersonation for money are reported and removed.
- Harassment
- Repeated unwanted contact, insults outside agreed play, or contact after a block.
- Doxxing
- Sharing anyone’s personal information without consent is prohibited.