Wishlist
A findom wishlist is a list of things a findomme would like: shoes, a bag, a spa day, a new phone. Finsubs enjoy picking something from it and making it happen.
Wishlist: A list of things a findomme would like, which finsubs can treat her to.
Watch your privacy
Wishlists are usually hosted on third-party shopping or gifting sites. With some services a parcel can reveal a name or a delivery address, so check what the service shows the buyer before you share a link.
Use a wishlist made for your persona, not your personal account, and pick a service that keeps your address hidden.
Wishlists on Findomination
Findomination is free and never handles money. A Domme can share her wishlist link, and anywhere else she takes tributes, in her bio and chats. A Sub who wants to treat her uses that link directly.
Good habits
Never share a home address, and never accept a parcel from someone you met online. Keep gifts within a budget you set in advance. And remember that a wish is an invitation, not an obligation: nobody has to fund anything.
Questions
New to findom? Read the full guide.
Related terms
- TributeA gift of money a finsub gives a findomme, where the giving itself is the point.
- FindommeA woman who takes the lead in financial domination and receives tributes from finsubs; also called a financial mistress or money Domme.
- How to become a findommeHow to start as a findomme: building a persona, staying anonymous and safe, and taking tributes on your terms.
- TitheA regular tribute on an agreed schedule, such as weekly or monthly.
Guides from the blog
- For DommesFindom task ideas: 60 safe tasks to give your SubFindom task ideas a Domme can give: 60 safe, non-explicit tasks for devotion, discipline and fun, all online and within your Sub’s means.
- For DommesFindom payment links: set them up privatelyHow to set up findom payment links privately: separate accounts, display names, wishlist and gift card tips, and privacy checks to run before you share.
- For SubsYour first findom tributeSending your first findom tribute? What to expect, how much to send, how to choose a private method, and what to say so it feels good on both sides.