FAQ
Basics
A free place where Subs and Dommes meet, chat and make requests in private messages: voice notes, photos, texts, check-ins and tasks. Every feature is free for everyone.
Yes. Findomination is 100% free. There are no memberships, plans, coins, fees or paywalls, and every feature works for everyone: messages, requests, boosts and profile extras. There is nothing to pay for, and we will never ask for your card.
Financial domination: a Domme is in charge, and the Sub enjoys giving to her. Findomination is free and never handles money: a Domme can say in her bio and chats where she takes tributes, and requests work inside the site for free. Online only, always.
Yes. Everyone uses a display name and real names are never shown. Your requests are seen only by you and the Domme you send them to.
Adults 18 and over (and the age of majority where you live). Anyone under 18 is stopped at sign-up.
Yes. Nobody is shown in Browse or anywhere on the site without a profile photo, and we tell you this at sign-up. Your face doesn’t have to be in it.
No. One account per person, and nobody may run both a Sub and a Domme account.
No. Findomination is non-explicit and online only. No meetups or in-person services.
Safety and privacy
Findomination is adults only and 100% free, so there’s nothing to pay here. Every new profile photo, gallery photo and video is checked automatically before anyone sees it, and refused uploads are deleted. Every report is read by a person, who can warn, suspend or close an account. See Safety.
Payment is between the Domme and the Sub. Findomination never handles money and takes 0%. A Domme lists where she takes tributes (Throne, CashApp, PayPal, a wishlist, gift cards or anything else) in her bio or in chat, and the two of you agree the rest. We can’t see, refund or settle payments, so only send what you’re comfortable with. Each payment service has its own rules.
Yes. Links, usernames, Telegram, WhatsApp, socials and any other contact details are allowed everywhere: in your bio, your profile and your chats. Links are clickable. You can take a conversation somewhere else whenever you both want. Do it at your own risk: once you leave Findomination we can’t see what happens or help. The rules against minors, non-consent and anything illegal still apply here. See Safety.
No. We never sell your personal data. See the privacy policy.
Only our public pages, like the home page, guides, FAQ and policies, are in search results. Profiles, Browse and messages need an account and are kept out of search engines. Subs’ profiles are never shown to visitors. Listed Dommes can appear by display name on our home page; turn off “Show me in Discover” in Settings → Privacy to stay off it.
No. Findomination works in the browser on your phone or computer. There’s nothing to download.
Open their profile or your chat with them and choose Report or Block from the menu. Photos have their own Report button. Blocked people aren’t told, can’t see your profile and can’t message you; you can unblock them in Settings → Privacy. Anyone, even without an account, can use the Complaints & Content Removal form.
Words that suggest a minor or non-consent are blocked before they’re sent. Reports are reviewed by a person, who can warn, suspend or close an account. Threats, fraud or anything involving a minor ends the account. Think we got it wrong? Choose “Appeal a decision” on the Complaints & Content Removal page.
Go to Settings → Account → Delete account and type DELETE to confirm. Your profile is hidden at once and your chats close. You can restore it for 30 days; after that it’s deleted for good.
Subs
Nothing. Findomination is 100% free: messaging Dommes, sending requests and every other feature. There are no plans and nothing to buy.
Yes. Some Dommes turn off new messages; you’ll see that on their profile.
No. There is nothing to pay, so there is no charge and nothing on your statement.
Requests
A private message that asks for something specific: a photo, video, voice note, text or task. The Domme accepts, asks for something else or declines. Requests are free.
Until the Domme answers, or 3 days. Once she accepts she has 2 days to deliver.
When she sends it you see a preview first. Approve it to see it in full; if you don’t answer, it approves itself after 2 days. If it’s not what you asked for, she can send a new one.
Anything online that’s legal, consensual and non-explicit. Read the request rules.
Yes. Either side can come back with a different request. The original one is then closed.
Dommes
No. Joining, being listed, receiving requests and every other feature are free for Dommes, including boosts and profile extras.
A boost shows your profile at the top of Browse for 1, 12 or 24 hours, labeled “Boosted”. Boosts are free; you can run one at a time.
Yes. Stop new messages, block anyone, or hide from Explore, all in Settings.
Yes. You can put links and contact details in your profile and share them in chats. Use them at your own risk.
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