Finsub

In findom the finsub is the giver. He gets satisfaction from sending tributes, honouring a tithe, or simply knowing a woman he admires is enjoying something he paid for. The submission is in letting her lead; the limits are always his.

The two overlap almost completely. Finsub is the neutral, descriptive word. Paypig is slang with a playful edge that some subs enjoy and others don’t. Use whichever feels right, and tell her which one you prefer.

A clear budget you set yourself. An understanding of what you get, whether that’s attention, tasks, check-ins or just the pleasure of giving. Freedom for either of you to say no to anything. And discretion on both sides: no real names, no contact details, no meeting up.

If a dynamic ever leaves you anxious about money, it has stopped working. Lower the amount, pause, or end it. That is always your call.

It also helps to be honest about what you want. Some finsubs want a quick thrill now and then; others want a steady routine with one Domme. Saying which you are at the start saves both of you time and makes it easier for her to give you the experience you’re actually paying for.

You use a display name and your real name is never shown. Dommes never see your email address. Messages are private to the two of you and never shown to search engines.

Findomination is free and never handles your money, so there is no card on file and nothing to charge. Your budget for tributes is yours to set. Create a free account when you’re ready.