How to stay anonymous as a findomme

• A persona name you’ve never used anywhere else.
• A new email address, created just for findom, never linked to your personal phone number where you can avoid it.
• Separate social accounts if you promote, never followed from or connected to your real ones.
• A separate browser profile, so you never post from the wrong account by mistake.

Photos are where most findommes get identified. Check every one before you post.

• Backgrounds: no windows, views, street signs, posters, mail, documents, branded bags or recognisable furniture.
• You: tattoos, birthmarks, rings and nails you always wear can identify you. Cover or edit them out, or keep them out of frame.
• Reflections: mirrors, sunglasses, screens and glossy surfaces show more than you think.
• New only: never reuse a picture from your personal accounts. Reverse image search will find it.
• Metadata: photos can carry the location and phone they were taken with. Screenshot the photo or use an app that strips it before uploading. Many sites strip it on upload, but don’t rely on that.

Voice notes are personal, which is why Subs love them. Record in a quiet room with nothing in the background: no TV, no family, no announcements. Avoid local slang and phrases friends would recognise you by.

Payment apps and gift cards often show a real name, and some show it to the person paying. Before you list where you take tributes, check what the sender sees, and use accounts made for your persona.

Findomination doesn’t handle money at all. Your real name and email are never shown to members. You decide which links you share in your bio and chats.

• Never share your city, job, age details, school or anything about your week that could be matched to you.
• Be wary of friendly questions that add up: “Is it raining there?”, “What time is it for you?”, “What did you study?”
• Don’t click links Subs send you.

• Don’t reply or confirm anything.
• Screenshot what they sent, then block and report them.
• If a photo of you appears somewhere without your consent, use the site’s takedown process. On Findomination that’s our complaints and content removal page.
• If someone threatens to expose you, that’s blackmail. Report it to the platform and, if you feel at risk, to the police.